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Refreshing lives, transforming faith, at the heart of the community Haere Mai, Piki Mai

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Don't Worry

A Sermon by The Reverend Yvonne McLean tssf
Nelson Cathedral
Sunday, 25 May 2008

Readings for Pentecost 2:

May my words be true to your word and our hearts open to hear you.
In Jesus' name.
Amen

"Why can't you sleep?" a wife asked her husband as he paces the floor at 3am. "Honey", he replies, I borrowed a thousand dollars from Sam next door and I'm due to pay it back tomorrow but I haven't got it!" "I just don't have the money!" he says wringing his hands. The man's wife jumps out of bed and flings open the bedroom window. "Sam! Sam!" she shouts. After a few minutes their groggy neighbour opens his window. "What is it?" he mumbles. "You know that $1,000 dollars my husband owes you? Well, he doesn't have it," the woman yells. Then she closes the window and turns to her husband. "Now you go to sleep and let him pace the floor!"

"Don't worry!" Or "Worrying about it won't make any difference." How many times have you been told that?

In this short passage from St Matthew's gospel Jesus talks about "worry" and "worrying' six times. Either telling us not to worry or pointing out the futility of worrying. As I like to say "God's got it sussed!" God knows our needs before we ask him. He knows what's best for us. He will provide for us. He has a plan for our lives! So why do we worry about so many things?

Even in Jesus' day people were worrying about what they wore, where the next meal was coming from, what was going to happen tomorrow. And we can go back even further to our Old Testament reading from Isaiah, about 700BC and people were worrying then! Isaiah 49:13 "For the Lord has comforted his people, he has had compassion on their suffering." The Israelites needed reassuring.

So God tells them to think back over their experiences so far: Just remember "I have answered you. I have helped you, I have inscribed you on the palms of my hands."

This gives us one of the keys to stop worry. Looking back over what God has already done for us, and how he has already provided and watched over us. The Israelites could look back over centuries of God's provision, right from their escape from Egypt and their journey to the Promised Land. Battles were fought and won in God's strength, manna and quails were supplied to eat, new lands were provided to live in. Just think, God's people are as close to him as the palms of his hands. But we all know that things did go wrong for God's chosen people. They strayed from worship, they made wrong choices. They put greed and earthly status first. Some died in the dessert and generations later many went into exile. But even in exile those who turned to God for help were comforted and strengthened.

The sad thing is that history continues to repeat itself. With every right comes a responsibility. We have a right to be called children of God, but with that comes the responsibilities of being God's children.

Our reading from 1 Corinthians explains this. "Think of us in this way" says the apostle Paul, "as servants of Christ and stewards of God's mysteries" Servants and stewards. A servant is concerned with their master's needs. someone that serves others, puts others needs first. A steward is: one employed in a large household or estate to manage domestic concerns (as the supervision of servants, collection of rents, and keeping of accounts) one appointed to supervise the provision and distribution of food and drink one who actively directs affairs, a manager

God provides for us but there are duties to be undertaken. And how we carry these duties out, whether we stay faithful servants or not,has consequences. Of course one of the most important duties is to have faith and to trust God.

The passage goes on to tell us that only God will judge us. Isn't that another reason why we worry? Do we worry about what God thinks of us? Or more often, are we comparing ourselves to others, to their spirituality to what material things they own, what job they do, or how successful they are? If you think you have less than someone else you can feel slighted. And if you think you have more, you can become smug and conceited. Possessions and money can have that effect. Only God can truly judge us, and how we're handling the blessings that he has given to us. A poor person can be just as miserly as a rich one.

It's our hearts that show who we truly are, not what we wear or what we own. As Paul tell us in 1 Corinthians 4:5 it is the Lord "who will bring to light the things now hidden in darkness and will disclose the purposes of the heart."

The Israelites, the people of Jesus' and Paul's day and us today all fall into the same traps. We get our priorities wrong. Instead of putting God first, the one who cares deeply for us, who offers us his comfort and compassion, we put things first. Our jobs, our possessions, our ambitions. Jesus says:

"No one can serve two masters; for a slave will either hate the one and love the other, or be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth." Matt 6:24

As I've said many times before; there's nothing wrong in money itself. It's what we do with what we've got that matters. Do we own our possessions or do they own us?

One of the Franciscan aims is Simplicity. A short word for a big challenge! In his life and preaching, Francis emphasised simplicity and poverty, relying on God's providence rather than worldly goods. To live simply means: to desire the love of God before all else, to be free from attachments to worldly aims and goods, to acknowledge all that is good and yet to be content to live without it.

Worry brings complications to life. Depending on God brings simplicity in living. Worry often gives small things a big shadow. Depending on God put everything into perspective, for nothing is impossible for God! Worry brings anxiety. Dependence on God brings peace.

When I researched to word worry it was closely linked to anxiety. In fact one theory of anxiety suggests that anxiety consists of two components; worry and emotionality. Emotionality here refers to physiological symptoms such as sweating, increased heartbeat and raised blood pressure.

Worry refers to negative self-talk that often distracts the mind from focusing on the problem at hand. For example, when students become anxious during a test, they may repeatedly tell themselves they are going to fail, or they can't remember the material or that their teacher will become angry with them. This thinking interferes with focusing on the test as the speech areas of the brain that are needed to complete test questions are being used for worrying.

When we worry our focus is not where it should be. Matthew 6:33 "But strive first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." Strive first, or seek first. Focus on God first. " And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:7 Both our minds and our hearts.

Yes, life can throw some pretty stressful situations our way, but we always have a choice in how we react to them. It takes quite a lot of effort to retrain the way we think. How we think, what occupies our mind, affects how we feel and that then leads on to how we react. By seeking God's ways, instead of worrying we can change the way we think and feel.

Have you ever had to do something that you really didn't want to do? The longer you think about not wanting to do it, the more insurmountable the task becomes. I've found that many things can be overcome with 2 steps. Pray then start. Seek God and then get stuck into what ever it is. Worry is often connected with inaction, we dwell on all the things that might happen. When you act, make a start on the problem, usually before you know it the job's done and you feel much better. Like making that doctors appointment, or writing that letter.

So why do we worry so much today? There's a whole industry been set up to help us overcome our anxieties but being anxious about life is more normal than abnormal. It's ok to feel down or sad from time to time. Severe anxiety is something different altogether, something that cannot be changed by a few words from me. There are definitely times when we need to seek professional help, but for the ordinary every day worries there are some thing we can do:

Next we need to make sure that we have our priorities right; to strive for God's ways first, to depend on God, and always, to give our problems to God in prayer. For if we seek first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness, then all these things will be given to us as well."

So worry is nothing new. But God continues to offer his comfort, strength and compassion. And remember, we are as close to God as the palms of his hands.

May God help each one of us to overcome our worries and turn to him.
This I ask in Jesus' name.
Amen.

The Reverend Yvonne McLean tssf

This sermon was written and delivered by The Reverend Yvonne McLean tssf at Nelson Cathedral, 25 May 2008 at 12:00


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